What to Wear for Your Family Photoshoot in Oʻahu

A question we often receive after a client books a photo session is “What do we wear?” This post will help you plan clothing options if you’re planning a family photo session on Oahu.

After years of photographing families all over the island, from wild North Shore beaches to tucked-away garden spots in Honolulu, we’ve seen what works, what doesn’t, and what truly makes your photos feel timeless, effortless, and authentically you.

Wardrobe Tips That Work with the Natural Beauty of Oahu

Whether we’re shooting at sunrise in Kailua or sunset near Ko Olina, one thing is constant: Hawaiʻi’s light is soft and golden if your outfit complements it. Here’s how to make it all work together:

1. Stick with Soft, Natural Tones

Beaches, green palms, and golden skies already provide a rich backdrop. Earthy colors like sand, olive, cream, rust, sage, muted blues, and terracotta photograph beautifully here. Avoid neon colors or super-saturated reds—they tend to reflect weird tones onto your skin.

2. Keep Patterns Minimal and Classic

A floral dress? Beautiful. A Hawaiian shirt that doesn’t yell tourist, totally fine. But loud logos, patterns, thick stripes, or clashing patterns can distract from your faces. Stick to one pattern in the group max, and balance it with solids or soft textures. If you like aloha shirt style, I’d suggest looking at Reyn Spooner shirts, they sell them on discount at Nordstrom Rack in Kakaako. Otherwise they have a store front location in Kahala Mall.

3. Dress for Movement, Not Just the ‘Pose’

My style leans toward candid and documentary style photography. That means we’ll be walking, sitting on the sand, chasing toddlers, maybe even splashing our feet in the water. Choose outfits that move with you. Flowy skirts, linen button-ups, breathable fabrics—they not only photograph well but help you feel like you.

4. Mind the Wind (Oʻahu’s Notorious Guest Star)

Trade winds are romantic… until they turn your hair into a mess. If you’re prone to frizz or flyaways, a loose braid, clip, or half-up style can keep things polished without fighting nature. Same goes for hats, skip them unless they’re secured or we’re going full editorial.

5. Barefoot is Always Welcome

Most beach and garden shoots look best barefoot, especially for the little ones. If you do wear shoes, go for neutral sandals or slip-ons that can be easily kicked off when we hit the sand.

6. Dress the Kids for Personality and Comfort

Don’t force a tuxedo on your toddler. Let their personality shine with comfy pieces in the same muted palette as the rest of the family. Avoid cartoon characters and itchy fabrics. Kids who feel good = photos that feel good.

7. Coordination > Matching

We’ve moved on from everyone wearing the same white shirt and jeans. Instead, aim for outfits that coordinate—think shared tones, complementary textures, and a mix of solids and subtle patterns. Lay everything out on your bed and snap a photo. If it looks calm and balanced, you’re golden.

Want Help Choosing Outfits?

If you’re unsure, I’m happy to give feedback on your wardrobe ideas, or I can send over my mini style guide to help you plan your looks. I also keep a Pinterest board updated with real Oʻahu family photo inspiration from past sessions.

Final Thoughts: Comfort, Connection, and You

The best family photos don’t come from perfect outfits. They come from connection. Laughing, hugging, walking hand-in-hand on a beach you’ll remember forever. Let’s dress you in something that supports that.

Need help deciding what to wear for your upcoming family photo session on Oʻahu?

Feel free to send me your ideas or ask for my wardrobe guide.